You've seen it before. Older people not giving a single shit about what anyone thinks or feels about them. But why should we wait to embrace who we are until we're older? "Who you are and what you do shouldn't be based on how others feel about you" Tolerance goes down as you age, and I'm sure there's some study that proves it. If you're feeling stuck in this in-between space where you're tired of taking people's shit but you're also a chronic, life-long people pleaser than th