<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Ashley Flores-Pabon]]></title><description><![CDATA[Ashley Flores-Pabon]]></description><link>https://www.ashleyflorespabon.blog/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Mon, 18 May 2026 11:44:06 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.ashleyflorespabon.blog/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Your "People Pleasing" Capacity Lowers as You Age. Here's 5 Tips on How to Get There Quicker.]]></title><description><![CDATA[You've seen it before. Older people not giving a single shit about what anyone thinks or feels about them. But why should we wait to embrace who we are until we're older? "Who you are and what you do shouldn't be based on how others feel about you" Tolerance goes down as you age, and I'm sure there's some study that proves it. If you're feeling stuck in this in-between space where you're tired of taking people's shit but you're also a chronic, life-long people pleaser than this is for you....]]></description><link>https://www.ashleyflorespabon.blog/post/template-how-to-write-a-tips-blog-post</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a09eb740b9e4f37fd2a661d</guid><pubDate>Sun, 17 May 2026 19:56:30 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_1b72eae74fbe4d78b50bb8096fbd7ff2~mv2_d_5760_3840_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Ashley Flores-Pabon</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[You're Invited to the Shit Show.]]></title><description><![CDATA[My name's Ashley! I created this blog to help others realize that life isn't constant butterflies and rainbows. But it is packed full of beautiful moments, opportunities, and joy. Don't worry. The whole blog isn't based around being a pessimistic, loathe-in-the-dark, "I hate the world" person, but it is realistic. Every day isn't fantastic. People die. Friends fade. Tragedy strikes. This blog includes and acknowledges those things too. Dirty mirror and all ❤️ At this point you're likely...]]></description><link>https://www.ashleyflorespabon.blog/post/your-title-what-s-your-blog-about</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a05d2be2fe6e98eed49ad83</guid><pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2026 16:42:01 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/e7543f_d519fe4a5302442b937604fc141b86c7~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Ashley Flores-Pabon</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>